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Chanalle Pecka posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 12, 2024
Lainey’s beautiful spirit and gorgeous smile lit up our world. She was small, but mighty and her strength and fight were admired by all who were lucky enough to know her. Though she may not be here with us, she will be carried in our hearts forever and remembered for the remarkable and feisty little girl she was.
Much love,
Chanalle, Todd, Cole, Max, and Rye
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Susan Davidson posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 12, 2024
Michaela and Dave,
Our hearts break for you. Your Lainey was one special soul who was with us here on earth for too short a time. In her short life, she touched so many hearts. I had people I work with fall in love with her. Her smile made them smile. She had a special, special spirit.
We fell in love with her smile, her spunk, her fighting spirit. Lainey will always be in our hearts.
Michaela, I love you and we are deeply sorry for your loss. Dave, you have our deepest sympathies.
Sue and Mike Davidson
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Jodi posted a condolence
Monday, November 4, 2024
Michaela and Dave,
Bringing little Lainey into the world forever altered your hearts. My heart breaks for you both in that she can’t physically be here with you, but I know she has wrapped herself around both of your hearts now where she is at peace so that you will never have to feel this world without her. Thank you for sharing your sweet girl with us all. She taught us all to have hope as she defied so much, and showed us how not to give up. You remain in our thoughts and we love you. xo, Jodi, Scott and Reagan
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Luke Zenir posted a condolence
Monday, October 28, 2024
Lainey's infectious smile will always be remembered on 12F. She was such a joy to be around and I will always look back fondly on the time that I had with her.
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Marisa Moran posted a condolence
Monday, October 28, 2024
Lainey bug, I am going to miss you so much. No matter what you were doing that day you always had so much fight. You managed to make everyone who entered your room to smile. While you were our little peanut your personality was anything but little. From giving mom the biggest smiles to giving the doctors the biggest side eye you made it clear how you were feeling. You will always be my favorite patient. Thank you for letting me get to take care of you and meet your amazing parents.
Michaela and Dave - thank you for letting me get to care for Lainey. You both are the strongest parents I have met. Your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. You showed little Lainey loo so much love.
Love you guys,
Marisa
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Kaleigh McLoughlin posted a condolence
Monday, October 28, 2024
Lainey Lou will forever be one of my favorite patients. She was the sassiest and sweetest little girl and constantly left us on our toes. I’m so thankful for our silly times together, like getting dressed and ready for the day at midnight. Or her witching hour from 4-6 when she would be wide awake and hanging out. I am also forever grateful for Lainey for introducing me to her amazing and loving parents Dave and Michaela. Truly some of the most wonderful people I have ever met and a constant loving advocate for Lainey. She sure was a lucky girl to have those parents. Although her time was short and I will always wish for more, she truly is the most beautiful guardian angel watching over all of us. Forever missing you Lainey lou❤️
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Megan Lewis posted a condolence
Sunday, October 27, 2024
Sweet Lainey girl will forever be in my heart. She was the most dramatic, sassy girl who always made everyone’s day so much better. She truly has had such an impact on my life and I’ll remember and cherish my memories/ time with her forever.
I love you all so much!
-Meg Lewis
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Kelsey Bannister posted a condolence
Sunday, October 27, 2024
My sweet Lainey girl. I am so lucky to have been a part of her journey and have the ability to care for her and your family. She taught me so much in such a short time, but I will forever remember her as a strong, beautiful girl with the perfect amount of sass. One day in particular she decided to make me work a little harder and keep up with her sassy self, but I am so glad I was the one taking care of her that day.
Mom and Dad, you two are some of the strongest parents I've met and the most down-to-earth people. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily, I will forever cherish time spent with you and your family.
Love always,
Kelsey
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Susan Van Cott posted a condolence
Monday, October 21, 2024
Dearest Lainey,
Thank you so much for the pleasure and honor of "knowing" you and sharing in your amazing journey! Like so many others I never met you in the physical, but everyday I came to know your beautiful, courageous, powerful soul and the beloved family you chose to walk your path with. Everyday I waited with bated breath to hear of your accomplishments, trials, setbacks and triumphs. And everyday I was overwhelmed and in awe of you! In awe of YOU and your family! You may have only been here on earth for a very short while, but YOU and your family inspired us all for the rest of our lives! You chose wisely,
Love, Light and prayers always.
S.V.C.
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Nicole Filkins lit a candle
Sunday, October 20, 2024
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Dear Miss Lainey,
In the short time I knew you, you made a huge impact on me. I learned so much from our interactions that will I will carry with me, and because of you I have an interest in working in pediatrics. I always looked forward to seeing what kind of bow you were wearing each week I was on 12F. Your strength and resilience was a direct reflection of your mother's. I pray your family finds peace and comfort in your memory during this difficult time without you here.
Rest in peace, sweet girl.
- Nicole Filkins, Upstate RT Student
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Rhonda Mcclenon uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, October 17, 2024
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Sabrina Rood posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2024
Miss Lainey never failed to bring a smile to my face. My favorite drama queen and princess of the PICU will be missed dearly. Michaela and Dave thank you for bringing this strong willed baby girl into the world and becoming part of the 12f family. The McClenon room was always my favorite and fostered a loving and open atmosphere. Lainey bug will be in my thoughts and prayers; hoping she is peacefully sleeping with her bow over her eyes. Rest in peace little chicken.
Love always,
Nurse Sabrina ❤️
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Doreen Wakeman posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2024
Michaela and Dave,
Thank you for sharing little Lainey with us. Even though we never meant Lainey she was always in our thoughts and hearts.
Her strength came from you, her strong and loving parents. Your lives will always be filled with Lainey's strength and love, she will always be watching over you.
We will continue to hold Lainey, both of you and your extended family close.
Love Always,
Doreen and Jimmy
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Nataliya Borysyuk posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 16, 2024
Little Miss Lainey Lou was the cutest little babe on 12F. I will always remember her big blue eyes and how her headband would fall down on her eyes while she was sleeping & how that made her content. She was very loved by everyone in the PICU. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I will miss our little Lainey girl.
Love always,
Nataliya Borysyuk
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Dort Iannello posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 16, 2024
Dear Precious Lainey,
Your mommy and daddy were so blessed to have such a beautiful daughter. They love you so very much. You have impacted so many lives in such a short time with your strength, determination, love, and contagious smile. Although you are missed so much, our hearts feel Peace knowing that you are in Heaven with Jesus and you are happy and free from pain. Your "Bright and Shining Light" will forever continue in our hearts and souls.
God Bless you Angel Lainey,
We Love you,
Chuck and Dort Iannello
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Linda & Jakkie Bickos lit a candle
Tuesday, October 15, 2024
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Sweet Lainey, I never met you but your family loved you so very much. They shared you with us in the beautiful pictures that showed a smile that melted hearts. We prayed and prayed but the Lord needed you to be his littlest angel. Rest in Gods peace.
Words cannot express the sadness that is felt for the entire family at this terrible loss.
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Krystal C posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 15, 2024
Lainey may have been tiny but she had a huge personality and an infectious smile! She was the princess of 12F . I will never forget this tiny warrior.
❤️ Nurse Krystal
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Angie White posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 15, 2024
Lainey stole a piece of everyone’s heart the moment those big blue eyes landed on them. Whether she had a sweet day or a sour one, you could always find her with a cute bow, sometimes a smirk and with mom and dad right by her side. It was such an honor and privilege to be able to care for and spend time with Lainey for the time she was with us. She radiated love off of her to anyone lucky enough be around her and could always gives us a good laugh. With a flair for the dramatics, you never doubted exactly how she felt about something. I will always hold a special place in my heart for miss Lainey girl and the incredible McClennon family.
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Katie Walburger uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 14, 2024
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Lainey girl I am honored to have been able to care for you. You have a very special place in my heart. You were the sweetest babe and drama queen of the PICU. You touched so many hearts and brightened our days. I’ll miss being able to walk in and see your bright blue eyes, little smile and fists in the air. Thanks to you, I was able to meet your amazing parents. I know you’ll watch over them and I’m sure you’ll manage to still keep them on their toes in one way or another ❤️
Michaela and Dave- I am incredibly sorry for your loss. You are the strongest parents and your love for Lainey is unconditional. You will always be apart of our 12F family. Thank you for letting me care for your baby girl. Sending you so much love and strength.
Xoxo
Katie Walburger
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Jennifer Zuccaro posted a condolence
Monday, October 14, 2024
Lainey touched so many people in her short life. Some days she was happy to see me and some days I couldn’t even enter the room without her letting me know she wasn’t in the mood. I always looked forward to my interaction with Lainey and mom and dad. I wish you both the best and please keep us all updated on your family. You will forever be part of the 12F family.
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Charles & Evelyn Emerson posted a condolence
Monday, October 14, 2024
Dear Michaela and David - Our hearts are broken for you. We prayed every day and shared your updates with others who prayed as well. We loved that little girl with all our hearts and would have done anything to save her. We will think of her every day of our lives and know we are here for both of you if there is anything we can do. Even though it doesn't make it easier, we know she is no longer suffering. You have all been through so much. It's hard to know why! We were so blessed to meet her and hold her during her short time at home. We will treasure those memories. We love you both and will love Lainey always. All Our Love, Grandma and Grandpa Emerson
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Sara Kneaskern posted a condolence
Monday, October 14, 2024
Oh Lainey boo how I miss you, you have taught us all what it is to love and to fight with your tiny heart and your tiny fists you showed us all how strong a mended heart can be. It is always hard for me to be openly close to another heart warrior because your fight is my fight but know how much I miss you and pray for you all. Nothing will make you stronger than your everlasting love for your girl. Her drama and sass left a lasting impression I will never forget. Lots of love and prayers
Sara
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Amy Sullivan posted a condolence
Monday, October 14, 2024
Lainey will forever hold a special place in my heart. She wasn’t here a long time but she changed my world for the better (even if she was dramatic about it). Thank you for letting me be a small part of her life and your family. I love you all, always.
Love,
Amy Sullivan
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Bob Emerson posted a condolence
Monday, October 14, 2024
Little Lainey you touched so many hearts in your short time with us. You will always be in our hearts forever. We love you. Uncle Bob and Aunt Cynthia
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Victoria McClenon-Wood uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, October 13, 2024
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Lainey babe, we will miss you more than we could ever express. You gave Uncle Sam and I so much joy in the short time you were here, even if it was a quick FaceTime chat. I loved ever morning picture your daddy or mommy sent to us. Your cousins both looked forward to doing so much with you, between riding 4 wheelers and showing you how to do some sort of redneck boy thing, they both were so ready to be cousins and protectors.
We will miss you forever and think of you often. We will do our very best to keep your lively spirit and force to remain and to remind everyone in the family that if it’s a fight worth fighting to never give up, just like you did, Every. Single. Day. You never gave up, you always had the ability, that resilience, something you get from both your parents.
Sweet girl, I love you and will continue to be stoic because that’s what we do as McClenon ladies.
May you forever be at peace and until you can run up and greet me with the rest of our family up in Heaven remind us down here that you’re soul is at peace and of your ever so big presence is still here.
Love always,
Aunt Toria, Uncle Sam, Braxton, Ryker
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Sheri Kinsella uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, October 13, 2024
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Sheri Kinsella uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, October 13, 2024
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Sunday, October 13, 2024
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Sheri Kinsella uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, October 13, 2024
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Sunday, October 13, 2024
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Read at Lainey’s Service.
“Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump on your throat, and that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”
The day after Lainey passed this quote popped up on my phone and put the meaning of grief into a different perspective than I once felt. It made the meaning of grief feel like it can be just as beautiful as it is heartbreaking, as difficult as that is to wrap my head around.
Beautiful that we have someone so special in our life to have so much love for, but so heartbreaking that it now builds up as gallons of tears and pain in our hearts because we cannot shower her in all the love she so much deserved. She made it so easy to love her.
Becoming an Aunt is something I’ve always dreamed of. M and Doe are so special to my girls and I was so excited to be one of those people in Lainey’s life. I couldn’t wait for the girls to want to spend every weekend together, to raise our girls with my sister, and while it hurts knowing our reality is different now I will forever feel grateful that she was made for our families - and that this life picked me to be one of her Aunts.
There are so many unanswered questions, whys, what ifs, but I have to believe Laineys purpose during her short time here was to put a bright light inside us all. Her eyes that melted us, her smile that made you laugh, her fight, her strength. She made such an impact during her time here. The only thing we can do now is keep her light shining bright. Keep talking about her, and your memories of her, and live like Lainey; Stay strong when things get hard. Keep fighting when you feel like life is 5 steps forward and 10 steps back, be dramatic every once in awhile in true Lainey fashion, and lastly, keep wrapping Michaela and Dave in love all while keeping them on their toes, as that’s just what Lainey did each and every day.
I’ll love you forever and a day, Lainey Lou, until I see you again.
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Sheri Kinsella posted a condolence
Sunday, October 13, 2024
Read at Lainey's service. My beautiful little Lainey Annalyn. Gigi wishes she had your strength to stand up and say what I want to say, but your Gigi is so sad and so heartbroken. There is nothing more I wish for than to walk in Golisano Children’s Hospital, get on the elevator to the 12th floor and walk down the halls to your room. I would do anything to caress your little head again while singing You Are My Sunshine and Rock A-Bye Baby to you, to help you sleep or ease your pain. I would do anything to see your big smile with all those dimples or have you hold my finger so tight. You were so strong! I would do anything to see those beautiful big blue eyes look up at me again. I would do anything to go back in time when you were doing so good. I was so blessed to spend those weeks with you and your Mommy, by your bedside, through good days and bad. You were the strongest little girl I have every known, and you fought with all your might to stay with us.
You were loved beyond words by family, friends, and even strangers we didn’t know. You were lifted in prayer by people and in churches all around the world. Everyone was amazed by your spirit and fight. You were our warrior. You gave us all strength and hope and taught us that if you could do it, so could we!
I have to say how proud I am of your Mommy and Daddy! They didn’t leave your side for four months. Their love for you was and is unconditional and is the strongest love I’ve ever seen. They fought and advocated for you every single day and did everything they could to keep you with us. They had an amazing relationship with the doctors, nurses and staff at each hospital, but mainly at Upstate where they were like family. The nurses fought over who was going to have you each day and night. They all loved you so much. You were not only our princess, but the little princess of the PICU floor. The motto was It’s Lainey’s Way, or No Way! You had them all wrapped around their little fingers.
The pain and heartache we are all feeling shows just how much love you brought into this world in such a short time. As a dear friend said to me, your amazing, beautiful, courageous, powerful soul will live on in our hearts forever. People say that time will heal this grief we are feeling, but with the size of the hole in my heart, I truly do not believe I will ever heal! “Our arms are empty, but our hearts are full of the love you left behind”. I love and miss you my beautiful little Lainey Bug!
All My Love, Gigi
In closing, I ask that you continue to pray for Michaela, David and our families. Mike and I are not only grieving the loss of our dear little Lainey, but we also grieve watching our children suffering the loss of their sweet little girl they wanted so badly.
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Yvonne posted a condolence
Thursday, October 10, 2024
Sheri and family,
Heartfelt sympathy and love to you and your entire family.
Yvonne and Ben Ackley
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David & Pam Chambers posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 9, 2024
Lainey, your family couldn’t have loved you more. Although you were very small you had so many people holding you close in their hearts. We watched as you struggled to make your way, your family always by your side. So precious and beautiful, but your fight was a hard one.
May you rest in peace and God hold you close in his loving arms.
David & Pam Chambers
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Greg Davie (SHS’76) posted a condolence
Monday, October 7, 2024
We , the members of Sidney HS Class of 1976 proudly adopted Lainey as our “littlest Warrior” in support of her grandmother, our classmate Sheri. She captured our collective hearts with her sweet smile and fierce fighting spirit. We offer our deepest sympathy to Lainey’s family and hope you know how much she was loved by so many.
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Dave & Dawn Davis posted a condolence
Saturday, October 5, 2024
Dave and Michaela we are saddened to hear of Laineys passing she was and adorable little princess.Our hearts are with you and your in our thoughts and prayers.
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Sharlene Merwin lit a candle
Saturday, October 5, 2024
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David and Michaela.. my thoughts and prayers are with you both at this heartbreaking time. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Rachel Clarke posted a condolence
Saturday, October 5, 2024
Oh Lainey Lou, how you occupy my thoughts, sweet angel girl. You have been an inspiration and a gift all your life to everyone who met you. Thank you for being the bright sunshine spot in so many of my days and sharing your beautiful family with me. You are loved and missed and I am so honored to have taken care of you.
With lots of love and only a little bit of drama,
Rachel Clarke
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Joan and Bill Northrop lit a candle
Saturday, October 5, 2024
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Our deepest condolences to Lainey,s family.
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Kathy Kleeschulte posted a condolence
Saturday, October 5, 2024
Lainey rest in peace, even though we never meet you, you were an amazing little girl, with a beautiful smile and gorgeous eyes...a lot of spunk. Wonderful parents and family who fought so hard to give you life. The memories you made for them, in the short time you were here will last forever. Kathy, Dan Kleeschulte and family.
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Marcie LaRose lit a candle
Saturday, October 5, 2024
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Sweet precious Lainey- your big beautiful smile made this world so much brighter. Your mommy , daddy and family loved you so very much. You will forever be missed ,but I know you are in Heaven watching over us and sharing that incredible strength of yours. We love you little one- always.
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Mareah Allen posted a condolence
Saturday, October 5, 2024
Rest in peace little angel. You will be loved forever. We will remember your beautiful eyes and your lovely smile.. My love and prayers to mommy and daddy. Love you
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Friday, October 4, 2024
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Friday, October 4, 2024
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Joanie and Randy Thomas posted a condolence
Friday, October 4, 2024
Our hearts are broken for the loss of this precious little child. The visits we had at the hospital were few and far between, but just being able to be with Lainey at those times will be memories we will cherish forever. Lainey was the strongest little fighter we have ever witnessed. No adult could have endured what Lainey went through in her short time with us. People ask why God didn’t answer prayers, but He did. He stopped her suffering and took her in His arms and made her whole again. We all look forward to the day we see her again in heaven.
Love you with all our hearts little Lainey.
Uncle Randy and Aunt Jo
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Megan Dembski posted a condolence
Friday, October 4, 2024
Sweet Lainey,
I’ll never forget how excited your mommy & daddy were to tell us they were pregnant with you. They wanted you so badly. Although your life was short, you made such an impact. We prayed for you every night. Lainey girl, you will never be forgotten. Our prayer for you is that you are pain free & comfortable, feeling loved in heaven, watching over your mommy & daddy.
With Love,
The Dembski Family
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